Day 13: Self-control and dieting

Dieting sucks. I don’t know anyone who actually enjoys it, but it does come easier for some people to exhibit self-control than others. I’m one of the “others.” Since this project started on Jan. 4, it has tested my resolve. I’ve enjoyed taking my lunch to work, thereby avoiding the fast-food lunches that I know are so bad for my diet. Dinners, on the other hand, I still need to work on. Louisville has a LOT of good locally-owned restaurants. Carrick and I avoid fast-food at dinner, but these past couple weeks we’ve continued taking the lazy way out each night after work — we stop by a local restaurant on the way home for dinner.

While restaurant meals still have too many calories, fat, sodium and out-of-control portions, one improvement I’ve made since starting my diet is to make healthier choices from the menu. My favorite menu item at many of the restaurants include fries, chips or some other bad-for-me side item. I’ve now asked the waiter/waitress to leave off the fries or chips. Or I substitute a small salad. And despite the fact the scale only moved a little bit this week, at least it did move the right direction.

A couple times this past week, Carrick had fries with her meal. I was proud of myself for not sneaking one off her plate (which always leads to many more than one). In my opinion, dieting and exercise are easier to do when you have a partner who is also doing it with you. But it’s hard for both people to get in the same mind-set at the same time. And that’s ok. It just means I need to work a little harder at my self-control. Last year, Carrick was training for our local mini-marathon. Eating healthy, training runs and exercise were part of her daily routine. My daily routine was . . . nothing. I ate what I wanted, didn’t exercise and it paid off like I expected — I gained 20 pounds. She finished the mini-marathon and achieved her goal. I’m still so proud of her. I’ve never been a runner and can’t imagine running 13.1 miles unless my pants were on fire or a rabid dog was chasing me. Besides, arthritis and running don’t seem like a good combo.

We both may not be in the same mind-set right now, but we’ll get there. I think it’s much like quitting smoking: I tried to quit many times and failed. But when I was ready to quit (not because friends or family wanted me to), I did it. I’ve not smoked in 7 years and don’t miss cigarettes at all.

MSNBC had an article today about a new study that suggests that self-control is contagious. Researchers found that “. . . watching or even thinking about someone with good self-control makes others more likely to show the same restraint. And they found the opposite also holds true — people with lousy self-control influence others negatively.” The ultimate decision still relies on the individual, not on others. What do you think? Do you eat healthier if you have someone to do it with you? Do you have an exercise partner or do you exercise on your own? Does it make a difference?

Today’s starting weight: 151

Today’s food journal:

Breakfast/lunch:
– Organic whole wheat english muffin = 294 cal.

Dinner:
– 3 pieces pepperoni pizza = 1,015 HOLY CRAP!!! I’m not sure what’s more horrifying: the calories, the 2,475 mg of sodium or the 43 grams of fat! (I think my pizza-eating days are over.)
– Diet Coke = 2

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An Illustration of my main principle…

Many of you saw the most recent Biggest Loser, where Jillian Michaels ‘had to’ eat a Taco Bell Burrito.  As she uncovered the best items from the Taco Bell Menu, all ceremoniously placed on silver platters, she could hardly keep her disgust in check.  It appeared that she had to restrain herself from tipping the table over and sending all of that food crashing to the ground.  Apparently this was one days food of the overweight duo on the opposite side of the table.  That is disgusting by the way.  They say something about not eating all day then chowing down on this pile of food for dinner and during the evening….

You know, I like Taco Bell as much as the next guy (okay, to tell the truth I am more of a Taco Time fan, so I will just imagine that this is all Taco Time food), but seriously, if you are going to eat about $60 worth of fast food between 2 people, vary it up for the love of god!!  Get a whopper from Burger King, a Burrito and Mexi Fries from Taco Bell, a piece of chicken from KFC and your fries from McDonalds.  Double that for 2 people and although you have an equally unhealthy meal, you have some awesome variety.  You can’t tell me that you have to go more than 1 mile in your car to find all of those restaurants.  They are always perched together at the mini-malls where the highway meets the interstate….  You may have trouble controlling your food intake and managing your addiction, but please, don’t let that make you so lazy that you can’t get some variety.

That said, I am certainly not advising anyone to eat the food listed above if you want to be fit.  It just doesn’t fit with a healthy lifestyle.  Sure you can eat fast food from time to time, maybe more often if you are careful what you eat each visit (for example if you can skip the fries/mexifries altogether, you stand a chance in a fast food restaurant).

So, to illustrate some point about how disgusting eating an obscene amount of  fast food is, a point that is entirely lost on everyone, from the producers to Jillian Michaels, because  instead of eating a whole evenings food for the couple, Jillian Michaels just noshes on a burrito.  Even this she can’t do.  Apparently fast food burrito’s are too disgusting to eat at all!?!!?  WTF!?!?  It was a little disgusting to see her spit out the burrito.  Seriously, someone alive, a fit person which is no surprise, cannot even stomach Mexican fast food.  She feels revolted smelling it.  She probably drives out of her way to avoid the fast food outlets because the smell of them make her skin crawl (I am picturing Agent Smith from the Matrix questioning Morpheus).

If this alone doesn’t point out just how different fit people are from the rest of us, I don’t know what does.  I have to avoid driving by fast food outlets because the smell will draw me in.  I have a problem with food, I love it!! I can’t get enough.  Salty and overly fat fast food tastes delicious.  I know it isn’t gourmet food, and if I was comparing it to a culinary delight such as my recent evening out at Cioppino’s, it wouldn’t even come close.  But I am not comparing it.  In fact, it has its own place in my food world.  I am not even comparing Taco Time to any of the fantastic mexican food that I love, like the Burritos at Primo’s, because it just wouldn’t hold up.  But that isn’t the point.  I am addicted to fast food, as I am sure most people out there are.  It is extremely hard getting fit when you are addicted to fast food.

That is why getting fitness book and lessons on how to get fit from people who don’t even like what is causing you so much distress is useless.  Sure, personal trainers can show you how to workout.  That is their job and they do it very well.  What they can’t do though is help you navigate the world of temptations that you have around you.  It is as silly as when Nancy Reagan headed up the Just Say No campaign.  Ya, that sounds easy… and it worked for you?  I will give that a try, it sounds like awesome advice….

Nobody listened to her, and nobody should be listening to fitness experts or doctors about how to avoid eating fast food and how to make fitness work for you.  You should listen to them about the techniques that work for exercise and the science behind weight gain and weight loss.  That is their expertise.  It sure as hell isn’t avoiding eating fast food.  That they know nothing about.

I am so tired of fit people telling us how to get fit when they don’t have a clue what the problem is.  By virtue of birth, either through learning good habits or genetics, they hit the jackpot.  They don’t have the weight problems we have.  Just as by that same virtue I am not an alcoholic and I would never pretend to tell an alcoholic about how to stay sober.  Yet when it comes to weightloss, because they are fit, we follow them like lemmings.  They all say, I was fat when I was young, but it always turns out to be some sort of a sham.  Could you imagine people who have no record of ever being alcoholics, and who clearly aren’t saying they were.  We would be up in arms.  We should be up in arms.

I would have been on that burrito like… well… like I would have jumped on a Smartie.  I would have had most of that food, including the nachos and that enchilada looking thing down my throat before the cameras could have mercifully been shut off to save everyone from seeing the carnage.  I don’t go near tables full of fast food, mexican fast food, because of that.

My point is, fit people are totally different from us unfit people.

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Salvation Army and Liberation Wellness

Salvation Army Enlists Personal Trainers

The Salvation Army chose personal training experts of Visionary Trainers, Inc. to boost emotional stability and well being through physical activity and good nutrition.

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

PR Log (Press Release) – Jan 11, 2010 – Norristown, PA – The Salvation Army (www.salvationarmyusa.org) chose the personal training experts of Visionary Trainers, Inc. (www.visionarytrainers.com) to boost morale.
In an effort to help empower people that are being assisted by the Salvation Army in Norristown, PA. the Liberation Wellness team of personal fitness experts are charged with assisting the Army “beneficiaries” with physical and emotional growth through fitness, exercise and good nutrition.  Since 1999, Visionary Trainers, Inc, the fitness arm of Liberation Wellness, has been helping people get thin and healthy through positive lifestyle changes.

Liberation Wellness is looking to improve the quality of the food supply to the clients of the Salvation Army, and is working with local organic farmers as well as the Weston Price Foundation

For many years the Salvation Army has helped to address the spiritual needs of the less fortunate in the community, and now is augmenting their efforts by employing cutting edge wellness programs such as Liberation Wellness to help the physical and emotional needs of the community.

Founded in July of 1865 by William Booth, The Salvation Army began assisting people in need in London. Today, the Army cooperates with churches of all denominations to meet the needs of the community.

“We are very excited to have Kevin Brown and his team of wellness experts assist our organization with fitness and nutrition programs,” reports Major Lynn Wittenberg, Director of the Salvation Army in Norristown, PA.  “I am a firm believer that physical activity and good nutrition is very important to emotional stability and well being.”

For more information about The Salvation Army visit www.salvationarmyusa.org.

For more information about Visionary Trainers, Inc. visit  www.visionarytrainers.com or call 800-327-3010.

About Visionary Trainers, Inc.
Founded by Kevin Brown in 1999, Visionary Trainers, Inc. is one of the largest private personal training companies in the United States, dedicated to helping people get thin and healthy for life.    Brown is a certified personal trainer appointed as a fellow on the National Board of Fitness Examiners (www.NBFE.org).  Brown is also the author of The Liberation Diet, teaching techniques which have helped his clients safely get their weight in a healthy range through diet and exercise.  For more information about Visionary Trainers, Inc. visit them online at www.VisionaryTrainers.com or call 800-327-3010.

To schedule an interview with Kevin Brown or a representative of Visionary Trainers, Inc. call 800-327-3010.

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Green Smoothies

Why am I such a fan of “green smoothies”? This is because not only do they taste good, but they are good for you. When you add greens such as kale or spinach to it, this give you nutrients you otherwise probably wouldn’t get. The majority don’t like to eat greens. Combines with fruit, eating your greens can taste good.

I have one almost every night and sometimes in the afternoons on weekends. They help you feel fuller longer and help you lose weight.

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“ไม่เจ็บอย่าร้อง (Mai Jep Yah Rong)” – Laolom (เล้าโลม)

Title: ไม่เจ็บอย่าร้อง / Mai Jep Yah Rong (If You Aren’t Hurt, Don’t Cry)
Artist: เล้าโลม (Laolom)
Album: 18+
Year: 2009

อย่าเหนื่อยให้มันลำบาก อย่ายากแค่ไม่รักกัน
yaa neuay hai man lam-baak yaa yaak kae mai rak gan
Don’t be tiresome and make it difficult, don’t be difficult, it’s just not loving me
ไม่เห็นต้องทำอย่างนั้น เค้นน้ำตาอยู่อย่างนี้
mai hen dtong tam yaang nan ken naam dtaa yoo yaang nee
I don’t see the need to act like that, forcing tears like this
อยากทิ้งก็ไปได้เลยไม่ต้องฝืน ทำเป็นซึ้งซะอย่างดี
yaak ting gor bpai daai loie mai dtong feun tam bpen seung sa yaang dee
If you want to leave, go ahead, no need to force yourself, acting so deeply affected
ไม่รักไม่ต้องมีเยื้อใย
mai rak mai dtong mee yeua yai
If you don’t love me, there’s no need to stick around

เมื่อเขาก็รอเธออยู่ ดูเธอก็มีหนทาง
meua kao gor ror ter yoo doo ter gor mee hon taang
When he’s waiting for you, it seems you have a way
ไอ้คนที่มันอ้างว้าง เหมือนว่ามันต้องเป็นฉัน
ai kon tee man aang-waang meuan waa man dtong bpen chan
The one that’s left lonely, looks like it has to be me
จบแล้วที่คำว่าลาไม่ต้องซึ้ง ถ้าอยากยิ้มไม่ว่ากัน
jop laew tee kam waa laa mai dtong seung taa yaak yim mai waa gan
It’s over, the word good-bye, no need to be so deep, if you want to smile, I won’t blame you
ขออย่างเดียวให้เธอพอสักที
kor yaang dieow hai ter por sak tee
I ask only for you to have enough

(*)ไม่เจ็บไม่ต้องร้อง ไม่ต้องเสียน้ำตา
mai jep mai dtong rong mai dtong sia nam dtaa
If you’re not hurt, there’s no need to cry, no need to spill tears
เธอเป็นอะไรหนักหนา เห็นแล้วไม่เข้าใจ
ter bpen a-rai nak naa hen laew mai kao jai
Whatever difficulties it is for you, after looking at it, I don’t understand
คนเจ็บมันคือตัวฉัน คนนี้ที่โดนเธอทิ้งไป
kon jep man keu dtua chan kon nee tee dohn ter ting bpai
The person in pain is me, the one that you abandoned
ไม่ต้องเศร้า บอกกันก็เข้าใจแค่พูดลา
mai dtong sao bok gan gor kao jai kae poot laa
There’s no need to be sad, tell me and I’d understand, just say good-bye

เธอเก็บน้ำตาไว้เถอะ ไม่ต้องให้มันไหลมา
ter gep naam dtaa wai te mai dtong hai man lai maa
Keep your tears, no need to let them flow
ไปร้องให้ลมให้ฟ้า ไว้เวลาเธอโดนทิ้ง
bpai rong hai lom hai faa wai way-laa ter dohn ting
Go and cry to the wind and sky when you get abandoned
ในเมื่อเธอมีคนใหม่ อย่าคร่ำครวญ
nai meua ter mee kon mai yaa kram kruan
When you have someone new, don’t moan
ไม่ต้องร้องถ้าไม่จริง ไม่ต้องกลัวจะเป็นคนไม่ดี
mai dtong rong taa mai jing mai dtong glua ja bpen kon mai dee
No need to cry if it isn’t true, no need to be afraid you’re the bad guy

(*, *)

บอกกันก็เข้าใจแค่พูดลา
bok gan gor kao jai kae poot laa
Tell me and I would understand, just say goodbye

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Yene Fiker Presents “LitaLo”

LitaLo newly signed to Yene Fiker Publishing is a new Pop/Rock group from the DMV area the group consists of two Talented & Beautiful young ladies (Left to Right)   Carmalita and Lolita there New Debut Album: BI-POLAR coming early this year check them out @ www.myspace.com/LitaLo & Follow on www.Twitter.com/LitaLoRockStars

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What Percent of the Diet Should Carbs Represent?

Before reading on, take a guess.

      I received this question from a person who was expecting a number, but that would have been an oversimplified response.  This is a question that evokes many opinions and theories.  My response to this question is based on epidemiology (a focus of my graduate program at UC Berkeley).  Examples of high carbohydrate diets include China (rice), Egyptian civilizations (wheat) and American/Mexican Indians (corn and beans).  Carbohydrates made up 75% to 80% of the diet of these people who had low chronic disease rates.  Eskimo populations on the other hand ate 75% protein and fat, again, lean people with low chronic disease rates.  In the US, about 50% of our diet is carbohydrates, but we are overweight, have high blood pressure, heart disease, high cholesterol, cancer and diabetes.  Where are we going wrong?  

     I could tell by the nature of the question that this person, like most Americans, doesn’t know what carbohydrates are.   A plain bagel, cinnamon roll, cookies and pasta are what come to mind for many people.  However these aren’t carbs, they’re sugars.  For those of you raising your eyebrows at that, bear with me, I do have something to teach you here.  Technically sugar is a carb, but carbohydrates should represent 65% of our diet and sugar should represent only 10-15%.  This is the distinction:

Top 5 “carb” sources in the US

Refined breads

Soda

Baked goods

Table sugar

Milk

Carbohydrates Sources

Unprocessed grains         (composition: 75% carbohydrates)

Beans                               (composition: 50% carbohydrates)

Vegetables                       (composition: 50% carbohydrates)

Fruit                                 (composition: 80% carbohydrates)

Nuts                                 (composition: 30% carbohydrates)

Skim milk                         (composition: 50% carbohydrates)

     These carbs are rich in antioxidants, fiber, vitamins and minerals.  They are low in fat, low in cholesterol and it takes a lot of energy to metabolize these calories.  Recognize the difference between sugar and carbohydrates to make sure you are getting your 65% from the right sources. 

Sugar Wake-up Call

The average American consumes 189 grams (or 47 teaspoons) of sugar every day!  Before food manufacturing became commonplace (pre-Industrial Revolution) Americans consumed less than 15 grams of sugar per day.   This picture shows 47 teaspoons of sugar compared with one teaspoon of nutmeg.   Drastically decreasing your daily sugar intake can result in significant health benefits.  Avoiding obvious sugar sources is easy, but keep in mind that added sugar is hidden in everything from cereal to pasta sauce.  Reading nutrition labels is helpful.

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Jan. 14, 2010 – Be honest

We’re 2 weeks into our 365 days and it’s time to take a second and be brutally honest with ourselves. No, I’m not going to tell you to put yourself down or be mean. What I want you to do is to look at that reflection in your mirror and honestly count the times you ate as good as you should have. How many times did you skip meals or pick a burger over fixing dinner at home? How many workouts did you do? How many did you give your 100% all and how many did you just skate through, barely paying attention?

How many times in the last 2 weeks have you let life happen TO you instead of making it happen? How many days have you really found joyful and how many were just tedium? How many people have you told “I love you” and how many have you ignored? How much of the last 2 weeks was spent worrying, berating and nagging instead of hoping, dreaming and planning?

How much of your last two weeks was hoping paired with action? Now, be honest, and plan how to make the next two weeks even better!

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Jan 15 – 17 WV Live Music

Friday
J. Medicine Hat @ The Funny Bone – Huntington
The New Relics @ The Lost Parrot – Beckley
Josh Buskirk @ Black Bear Burritos – Morgantown
Cello Fury @ The Purple Fiddle – Thomas
Todd Coyle & Friends @ Blue Moon saloon – Shepherdstown
Uncle Eddie & Robin @ Down on Main Street – Wheeling
The Greens & 85 Flood @ 123 Pleasant Street – Morgantown
Davisson Brothers Band @ Bugsy’s & Rhythm n Brews – Morgantown
Tater Famine @ V Club – Huntington
Lynn Routzahn @ Vista Tavern – Harpers Ferry
FouR % HerO @ Mustrad Seed Cafe – Jefferson, OH
Jason Lovins Band @ Southridge Church of God – Charleston
Blue Maggie @ Braxton Co Jamboree – Gassaway
Black Vine @ Taylor Books – Charleston
Rock 4 Wishes, Elysium @ Shamrocks – Huntington
The Spikedrivers @ Mountain State Brew Co – Thomas
Eddie Davisson & Getaway @ FOE – Clarksburg
Paul Hopper @ Comedy Cellar – Snowshoe
Cazhmiere @ Massanuttin Resort – Harrisonburg, VA
East Run Band @ Jerry’s – Grafton
Cool Kid Collective, Victory by Revenge @ Rock It Club – Blufield
The Thrillbillys @ VFW – Kenova
NoDrama @ The Lucky Star – Front Royal, VA
The Edge @ Moose Lodge – Clarksburg
Yellow Light Maybe & Will Jones @ Empty Glass – Charleston
Dick Dragon & Bush Monkeys @ VFW – Kingwood
Chip Burkey & Dog Nation @ Black Bear Tavern – Deep Creek, MD
The Cat Daddy’s @ Pat’s bar & Grill – Clay
Exxposure @ The Garage Bay – Reedsville
George Shingleton Band @ PJ Kelly’s – Clarksburg
Revolution @ Rainbow Road – Rippon
Phil Wiseman @ TRIC – Buckhannon
Marshall Lowry Band @ Hillbilly Rockstar Saloon – Fairmont
Southern Mix Band @ Smiley’s – St Albans

Saturday
J. Medicine Hat @ The Funny Bone – Huntington
Jason Mitchell & The Remedy @ The Lost Parrot – Beckley
Dan Cunningham @ Black Bear Burritos – Morgantown
Third Stream Giants @ The Purple Fiddle – Thomas
City Dwelling Nature Seekers @ Blue Moon saloon – Shepherdstown
Tom Batchelor Band & The Emperors @ 123 Pleasant Street – Morgantown
Davisson Brothers Band @ Jabberwock – Elkins
Lynn Routzahn @ Rumsey Tavern – Shepherdstown
2 Blue @ Taylor Books – Charleston
Down Goes Frazier @ Shamrocks – Huntington
Eddie Davisson & Getaway @ VFW – Clarksburg
Paul Hopper @ Comedy Cellar – Snowshoe
Cazhmiere @ Massanuttin Resort – Harrisonburg, VA
Madrone @ Rock It Club – Bluefield
The New Relics @ Long Branch Saloon – Mountain Lake Park, MD
The Thrillbillys @ VFW – Kenova
The Thrillbilly @ The Full Throttle – Capon Bridge
The Edge @ The Garage Bay – Reedsville
Yarn @ The Empty Glass – Charleston
Dick Dragon & Bush Monkeys @ JG’s Pub – Deep Creek, MD
Dog Nation @ Black Bear Tavern – Deep Creek, MD
The Cat Daddy’s @ Pat’s bar & Grill – Clay
Fletcher’s Grove @ PJ Kelly’s – Clarksburg
Revolution @ Rainbow Road – Rippon
Southern Mix Band @ Smiley’s – St Albans
Lucky & the Majic @ Mountain State Brew Co – Thomas
Todd Burge @ Albans Arts Center – St Albans
Transit, Therefore I Am, Talk is Cheap @ Brickhouse – Nitro
Kidd Brothers Bluegrass Band @ Dunmore Jamboree
Our Malignant Beloved @ Soldiers Memorial – Beckley
Duo Divertido @ Bridge Road Bistro – Charleston
Jenny Wilson Trio @ Synergy – Morgantown
D. David Stiles & Faces Made for Radio @ Wheeling Jamboree
Eddie Pockey @ Wood’s Walnut Pub – Hedgesville
Unfinished Business @ Moose Lodge – Charleston
No One You Know @ Bear Fork Trading Post – Stumptown
Torn @ VFW – Charles Town
Lost Chapter, XFactor 1, Resistance 13 @ Yesterdays – Wheeling
Limit 6 @ Bubba’s bar & Grill – Bridgeport
Head Changers @ Sixpence Pub – Parkersburg
Stan McDaniel Band @ Merican Legion – Parkersburg
The Virgins @ Tally Ho – Kingwood
Eric Lewis @ Rat Pack Lounge – Morgantown
Mojo DOctor @ Bear Skin Inn – French Creek
Thunderstruck @ Corners – Star Tannery, VA
Bobby Nicholas @ 4th Street – Clarksburg
Dale Dillon & Powerhouse @ Moose Club – Madison
The Remnants @ The Landing – Glen Dale
The Trainjumpers @ Office Lounge – Wheeling
West By God @ 123 Pleasant Street – Morgantown
Higher Ground @ Purple Cow – Morgantown
Freakshow @ J & T’s – Inwood
Sacra Via @ The Thirsty Turtle – Parkersburg
Neutral @ Crystal Lounge – Clarksburg

Sunday
J. Medicine Hat @ The Funny Bone – Huntington
The Weber Brothers @ The Purple Fiddle – Thomas
MLK Rock & Roll Freedom party @ 123 Pleasant Street – Morgantown
Deadbeats & Barkers and Friends @ Shamrocks – Huntington
Paul Hopper @ Comedy Cellar – Snowshoe
Jenny Wilson Trio @ Synergy – Morgantown
The Ginsangers @ White Grass Cafe – Davis

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Today in Review: Jesse James~”I Look So Good”

Hey Ya’ll!!

Tryin’ to find sista’ white cowboy boots today!!  Man…whites a tough color!  ;)  Anyone have any suggestions!  Checkin’ out Mercury recording artist Jesse James and her video for “I Look So Good (Without You)”.  My neighbor gave me her CD a few months ago and I really liked it….although in NO WAY, shape, or form would I consider this country!  Fun, catchy and a bit racy, but pushing crossover to the limit!!! I give this video a 7 for sexy! ;)

Check out the video @
Jessie James – I Look So Good (Without You) at www.yallwire.com!!!

Country Rocks!

JW

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